Sound simple? So how can it go wrong?
Generally speaking most men because anthropologically speaking have been the breadwinner tend to take the masculine energy. Most women prefer to be the feminine energy. Its easy to find out which you want to be according to Dr Pat Allen by asking the question, “are you a women with a career or a career woman?
A career women is a masculine energy woman who runs on adrenaline and is best mated with a feminine man. A woman with a career is a feminine energy woman who wants to respect and admire her masculine energy man.
The trouble starts when the energies become the same and get neutralised what this results in is conflict or apathy.
When a feminine woman settles down with a feminine man, the resulting relationship becomes boring, non sexual and more like brother and sister.
When a masculine man and woman get together there is passion and fireworks but there is also drama and conflict where both of them try to be top dog.
Whats the answer?
Learn which role you want to occupy mainly and then communicate to switch roles and negotiation. For example, a feminine woman needs to make a appointment with her masculine man in order to get his attention, she should never try and tell him what to do as that is masculine energy. Accept that your masculine man will lead the relationship and relax into that. If you’re not happy about anything make an appointment to share your feelings and what you will discover is that he will want to make you happy and cheris your feelings.